My father died when I was 2 years old. I never knew him, never had a relationship with him. Now that I’m 23, I look back and realize that I was searching for him in the men I dated. Thank you for the gift of understanding through music, Mary J. God bless you.

SlickaThanUrAvg

This song really helped me to understand the reasons and ways my past girlfriends acted the way they did. I feel bad and not bein able to see that this is what they were honestly lookin for. Now i embrase it and love being all all around man my women wants and needs

MrEriePA814

ALL WOMEN NEED TO LISTEN AND GET SOME SELF LOVE. MARY HAD TO LEARN IT TOO! WE HEART U MARY! U HAVE NO IDEA! :)

MsButtercream1

I lOve thiis sOng.. :) thiis Song giives me strength,
and that one person you dont think that is the right
person mise well move on now cause down the
road you dont wanna get hurt NEVER cry over your boy cause trust me it aint worth the pein or tear there are many people in the world
not only one.. :)

kayymarieful

I was born in the 70s, grew up in the States & 3 other nations in the 80’s & became a man in the 90s. Somehow, for all the advances we’ve made in the last 20 odd years, we seem to have lost something else…the essence that drove what Mary J is singing here. Like you, lstening to this takes me back to a time when life was somehow simpler, but better…

DarkeChilde9

Me and my ex-girlfriend…… Those were the good ol days… until I effed it all up being an immature tool bag now I’m a grown man crying in the dark listening to this song… LOL! well not crying in the dark, but I let a good one get away. One day I’ll get it right. Pray for me yall.

imfreeinfinity